Saturday, January 3, 2009

First day at home and then on…


Abbas had decorated our bed with streamers and balloons… It was a lovely surprise… And immediately then the timer for me to “stay on my toes” was triggered…. It only stopped when they tuned around three months old… The lower tummy area where the incision had been made kept throbbing. Our nanny Sabita joined only three days of our arrival. Washing their clothes and the kitchen chores fell into Ma’s scope of work. 
I bathed them. 

Changing their clothes, cleaning their bottles, cleaning them after potty and feeding them were “round the clock” job, in IT terms they call it “SUN Support or 24X7 Support’”… Abbas always shared these jobs with me… Ma too pitched in now and then to assist, in case required. We had found a nanny, Sabita, who joined three days after our arrival. But she stayed only during the day. Nights were totally managed by Abbas and I. It was frantic for him as he was working after going through sleepless. (Times like these make me proud of my decision of marrying him in spite of the consequences.) They had to be fed almost every 2-3 hours. But since they were two, we were feeding one of them almost every hour… This sure was the best ‘test of patience’ that could be. The thought that haunted my mind the most at that time was “When will the day come when they will sleep through the night? So will we…”

 Milestones during the first trimester in chronological order:

  

June 14

They came home

June 15

Mannat’s belly cord fell off

Both had their first bath at home

June 17

Tamanna’s belly cord fell off

June 18

           

First shampoo at home

Sabita, their nanny joined to look after them

June 21

Tamanna’s vaccination

·        BCG

·        Hepatitis B – 1st Dose

·        OPV – 1st Dose

Introduced Cifran eye drops to Tammu as she had fluid discharge from her eyes

June 23

Introduced A2Z drops – 5 drops daily each

June 27

Mannat’s vaccination

·        BCG

·        Hepatitis B – 1st Dose

·        OPV – 1st Dose

June 28

Began applying Johnson’s Baby Powder

July 4

Both learnt to clutch their pillows tightly into a fist

July 5

Ended applying cord drop in the belly

Began Body massage with Johnson’s Baby Lotion twice daily

July 12

Both’s heads were shaved off as per custom

July 23

Tamanna’s vaccination

·        DPT – 1st Dose

·        Hepatitis B – 2nd Dose

·        OPV – 2nd Dose

Began applying Johnson’s Baby Hair Oil

July 26

Mannat’s vaccination

·        DPT – 1st Dose

·        Hepatitis B – 2nd Dose

·        OPV – 2nd Dose

August 2

We bought their cribs

They used to sleep with us on the bed till today

August 3

They began sleeping in their respective cribs at nights

August 8

Ma and I went out with them on a taxi. We were to meet Abbas at P.C.Chandra Jewellers but wandered streets unable to locate it. In the meantime the shop was closed and we picked up Abbas and came back home in the same taxi. Tams enjoyed the ride but Mans slept all through.

August 9

We came out of home again heading for P.C.Chandra Jewellers, this time a little early to rectify the previous day’s mistake. This time it was Tam’s turn to sleep all through the trip and Mans enjoyed the journey. And I loved everybody trying to have a glance at our fairies. (One of those PROUD MOM moments I suppose)

August 12

Mannat began to respond to talks and thus established a conversation by making sounds of vowels like ah, eh, oh (mostly oh)

August 14

Tamanna began responding to talks, but she made less sounds and laughed more in response

August 23

Tamanna’s vaccination

·        DPT – 2nd Dose

·        HIB – 1st Dose

·        OPV – 3rd Dose

Aug 25

Tamanna held her pillow tightly when Ma lifted her out of cradle. She carried along it along with her not letting go of it for atleast 2 minutes

 

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